Well hello there. Well you have arrived at me. And who am I you may ask. Well I am 32, female and recently acknowledged I am lesbian, after spending many years in denial. I have survived an extremely violent and abusive marriage that ended in divorce 4 years ago. I am currently experiencing my first lesbian relationship and enjoying it immensely. I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder 7 years ago, and from time to time exerience episodes of mania and depression, and have self harmed in the past. I am doing the first year of an Open University degree. I have decided to keep this blog as I am undergoing counselling and would like you to accompany me on this journey.